"If it happens that you suffer afflictions, whatever kind they may be, be assured that if you truly love God, everything will be turned to the good. Even when you cannot understand how any good could come of it, you can be very certain that it will undoubtedly come....Do not lose heart about any failures, but stir up your confidence and deepest humility. Becoming discouraged or impatient after you slip is the result of a trick of the enemy. It means you are giving up your weapons, giving  yourself up as conquered. You will not do this, though, because the Lord's grace is always at hand to help you."  St.  Pio of Pietrelcina