“It is the possibility of saying ‘no’ which gives so much charm to the heart when it says ‘yes.’  A victory may be celebrated only on those fields in which a battle may be lost.  Hence, in the divine order of things, God made a world in which a man and woman would rise to moral heights, not by that blind driving power which makes the sun rise each morning, but rather by the exercise of that freedom in which one may fight the good fight and enjoy the reward of victory – for no one shall be crowned unless he has struggled.” Archbishop Fulton Sheen