“Suffering is bearable if there is someone we love. No human being is free to decide whether he will go through life without suffering and trial. These constitute as much the essence of life as shadows resulting from sunlight. Our choice is only to decide how we will react to them. Some trials in marriage are of such a magnitude that no human remedy can help; it is then that one must turn to God and the fullness of His love.” Archbishop Fulton Sheen