"Yes, my heart’s dear one, Jesus, is here with His cross. Since you are one of His favorites, he wants to make you into His likeness;
why be afraid that you will not have the strength to carry this cross without a struggle? On the way to Calvary, Jesus did indeed
 fall three times and you, poor little child, would like to be different from your spouse, would rather not fall a hundred times if
necessary to prove your love to Him by getting back up with even more strength than before your fall!" — St. Therese of Lisieux