"Remember Jesus, meek and humble of heart. FEAR AND DON"T SIN is of the saints. I have never regretted being gentle, but I have had qualms of conscience and had to confess when I was a bit severe. But when I say gentleness I do not mean permissiveness. That no! I mean the gentleness that makes discipline pleasant and which never be neglected."  St.  Pio of Pietrelcina