"Love is the key to the mystery. Love by its very nature is not selfish, but generous. It seeks not its own, but the good of others. The measure of love is not the pleasure it gives -- that is the way the world judges it -- but the joy and peace it can purchase for others. It counts not the wine it drinks, but the wine it serves. Love is not a circle circumscribed by self: it is a cross with arms embracing all humanity. It thinks not of having but of being had, not of possessing but of being possessed, not of owning but of being owned."   Archbishop Fulton Sheen