You please Me most by suffering. In your physical as well as your mental sufferings, My daughter, do not seek sympathy from creatures. I want the fragrance of your suffering to be pure and unadulterated. I want you to detach yourself, not only from creatures, but also from yourself. (…) The more you will come to love suffering,  My daughter, the purer your love for Me will be.   WORDS OF JESUS TO ST.  FAUSTINA.  (Diary 279)