“What is the extra ingredient in suffering – which when absent prompts a curse, and when present becomes a joy?  You must unite your sufferings and sorrows with Christ and see your Calvary as coming from the Hand of God.  Our Lord saw the cup of His Passion as given to Him, not by Judas or Pilate or Caiphas or the people, but  by His Father: ‘Shall I not drink the Cup My Father Himself has appointed for Me?’  Pain without Christ is suffering; pain with Christ is sacrifice.”  Archbishop Fulton Sheen (Lenten & Easter Inspirations)