"Don’t let your zeal be bitter, fussy, aggravating or a cause of uneasiness, but let it be free from all defects: Let it be sweet, benevolent, gracious, peaceful and uplifting. Ah, who cannot see the dear little Infant of Bethlehem in the event for which we are preparing ? Who does not see his incomparable love for souls ? He comes to die in order to save, and He is so humble, sweet and lovable."  St. Pio of Pietrelcina ( Letters III, p. 469 – 470 )